How Much Should You Really Spend on an Engagement Ring?

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If you’ve ever thought about getting engaged at any point in your life, you’ve probably at least pondered how much you and your potential betrothed should be expected to spend on an engagement ring. While there is certainly no set-in-stone amount, there are so many different rules and expectations when it comes to the cost of the bling that it can be overwhelming, confusing and downright frustrating (especially for the person making the purchase). There are even online engagement-ring cost calculators that have been set up to help you navigate the process—but we also have some pretty solid answers to help you on your way.

How much should you spend on an engagement ring?



While it’s always great to pore over the best celebrity engagement rings for inspiration, dropping millions of pounds isn’t exactly a reality for many of us. Fear not, though, as we’re here to help. We’ve compiled as many different engagement-ring price suggestions as we could and laid them all out for you so it’s easy to navigate and understand. We also got some up-to-date information from jeweller Michelle Oh, who spoke to us about the more modern rules. Both you and your significant other will thank us if and when it’s ever the time to bite the platinum, gold or silver bullet.

Keep scrolling for the five rules on how much to spend on an engagement ring, and shop some of our favourite pieces.

Rule #1: Three Months' Salary

According to an expert-fuelled report on, the purchaser should spend about three full months’ salary on the ring. This is more a rule of thumb, however, and if the person buying the ring is “heavily in debt or concerned about job security,” they might want to scale back a bit.

How Much Should You Spend on an Engagement Ring


Getty Images; PICTURED: The Duchess of Cambridge's engagement ring

Rule #2: One Month's Salary

You may have heard the more prevalent rule of thumb that a person should spend about a months’ salary on the ring—and you have diamond manufacturer De Beers to thank for that little wisdom nugget. Back in America’s Great Depression, De Beers started running an ad campaign suggesting that men spend one months’ salary on the ring to save money, and the idea stuck.

How Much Should You Spend on an Engagement Ring


Getty Images; PICTURED: Meghan Markle's engagement ring

Rule #3: Split the Difference

If three months seems like a stretch for your other half, but one month seems a little skimpy, there are some contemporary ways of thinking that suggest you compromise and spend two months’ salary on the rock. This can be a good option if you’re looking to spend a small fortune without potentially wrecking your finances.

Rule #4: Spend the Average Cost of a Ring

In 2016, the average amount spent on an engagement ring in the UK was £573. You always have the option of presenting your future spouse with this information and suggesting they spend the average amount. It’s a fair number, but you should keep in mind that it has nothing to do with their own personal financial standing.

How Much Should You Spend on an Engagement Ring


Getty Images; PICTURED: Amal Clooney's engagement ring

Rule #5: Look at Ways to Save Money

There are some pretty savvy things you can do to make sure you get the most bang for your engagement-ring buck. Many would recommend shopping online (remember that at least you’ll find it easier to return something!), but there are also tricks such as opting for a lower-carat diamond (many stones look exactly the same, unless you’re an expert with a magnifying glass in hand) and deciding on a style that has a solitaire diamond rather than lots of little stones that add up. 

If you’re concerned about authenticity online, aim to browse retailers that are trusted and well-known (such as Ernest Jones, for example) and look out for brands carrying IGI certificates, as they are a sure-fire way to know that something is legit. Find out more information on being a confident diamond buyer from the International Gemological Insitute

How Much Should You Spend on an Engagement Ring


Getty Images; PICTURED: Kate Upton's engagement ring

Rule #6: Forget the Rules

In our minds—and we assume the minds of many cash-strapped UK millennials—the amount spent on an engagement ring should be 100% up to the person buying it. While you can, of course, adhere to the above rules if that's what you want, you can also take the advice of Michelle Oh, founder of Michelle Oh Jewellery, who says that ultimately, choosing a piece of jewellery, especially an engagement ring, is a very personal choice. She also said that the focus has very much shifted from one that was all about how much the ring cost to what the ring wearer will like—so in many ways, price doesn't matter as much as it used to.

Now keep scrolling to see some engagement rings we love.

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